How to Know if a Baby Is Yours

Clive Williams is an internet researcher and writer on many genres. He has a BSc. Degree in Information Systems.

Having a babe is one of the near joyous and celebrated thing for many new and even seasoned breeders. That sweet packet of joy is just so adorable and just begging to be kissed pampered and cared for. But as they say, all adept thing shall come up to an end. Well, that is if you just found out that the baby you just got and bought all those prissy stuff for, tiny chimees, pampers, crib and all the pocket burning things that a baby will demand, and on height of that, you even proposed to your spouse telling her she is the adult female of your life and y'all are so glad she is the woman she is. Then the block of ice lands right on the top of your head. Boom! news wink, your spouse made out with the guy that sells turkey legs at the Disney Epcot theme park and maybe the child is non yours.

It can either be a moment of joy or a sigh of relief when you find out the infant is or isn't yours. Too every bit it can exist very heartbreaking for some fellows. This happened to a black man named Joe Greene. His wife got meaning and delivered to him a full blown Asian child of Chinese genetics. Both had no recollection of them having whatever Chinese descendants. He decided to contest being the father of the child and actually did the Dna test and i guess you know the result even earlier i finish typing this line. As Maury would say "You are definitely NOT the begetter of the child." Well nosotros all know how the ladies love to deny their infidelities and cry and bring downward the whole nine yards. In the terminate she admitted to the affair, it seemed like when she went out on Thursday nights to accept Chinese, she literally did have Chinese!

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Judging The Book By The Color

So many men in today'southward society are fathering children that were given to them under false pretense. The term for this is misattributed paternity. Misattributed patternity is when a child'southward putative male parent is not the child's biological father. Overall, the incidence of misattributed paternity ranges from about 1% to ii%, though it may be considerably higher in sure populations. So how on God's cheating world does this misattribute happen? Well, for a definite answer you would have to speak to the lady that did all the "hanky panky" with her spouses. But allow the states look at situations that we can see with our ain eyes. A white woman has a white husband and sleeps with him. She then ends upwardly sleeping with a black man and gets meaning. The husband is ecstatic at the news of pregnancy, but when the kid arrives on earth he is darker than when the train lights fail in a tunnel. The wife gives him some hogwash story about her ancestors 400 years ago had been involved with runaway slaves and and so the negroid DNA was always in their genetics. Lets be existent, there is a very tiny infinitesimal slim modest microscopic run a risk of this being true, but 99% of the fourth dimension the man has just been had. He has now go a statistic in the misattributed paternity.

He as Grown a Bit, Now He Looks Similar Jack and I Am Bill

When a child is merely born, you cannot actually say who the infant actually looks like until nearly a year of growth and evolution. You lot however have very convincing mothers that right after the baby is born will tell the joyous father that the baby has his beautiful eyes and hair like his! Except for ethnicity or birth defect traits, you lot cannot tell who a baby looks like right after birth or the first couple of months as the babies features are notwithstanding being molded. In other words his DNA is still giving him a piffling makeover. So the all-time bet is to take a skillful wait at the kid when he reaches the ripe immature age of 1 and see who he actually looks like. If you meet him having that perky corner grinning like your good friend jack and that bent out toe like jack. Chances are that Jack may take been more just a good buddy to you, he may have also been a very proficient buddy to your wife.

He Behaves Only Like Your Boss

You should always inquire your mother how yous behaved as a child, every bit chances are that is how your child may acquit when he is minor. But notation that this is not e'er the case, as he may but have on his own child persona or may carry like his female parent when she was a baby or toddler. Simply if you lot find that he has much of the grapheme type as your dominate at the office, ordering you around and telling you lot to get get is stuff and when he speaks to you his hand is akimbo. You better offset thinking differently. Now that you take questions regarding poor little junior, some things brainstorm to flash to your mind that you thought didn't have much significance. You remember one of your office parties, around three years ago when you lot introduced your boss to your wife and they became so chummy. Two months later you got a enhance that you had been asking near for four years! Chances are that if child acts a scrap bossy, he me just exist the kid of you dominate.

Let The Feet Do The Talking

You lot know you lot can tell a lot about a person by merely observing their feet. When the child is able to walk and remainder properly, chances are that his toes and anxiety architecture are now ready to read in-order to know the bequeathed roots of your child. Lets expect at this from a genealogical point of view.

Types of Toes

Okay, if you really desire to first find out about a person ethnicity or even your own. Accept a good look on that persons toe see if information technology falls into whatsoever one of the listed categories below.

1. Egyptian Toes: The Egyptian genetics make up of toes comes with very strong and alpine big toe. The big toe is the tallest of the group of five. From the right side of the individual, the toes so gradually descends in length forming a 45 degree angle.
2. Roman Toe: The genetically make upwardly of these toes are that the Big toe along with the adjacent two are all tapered off at the aforementioned length. The Big Toe is not that tall either. The little toe and the side by side toe the follows a slight slope design.
3. Greek Toe: The Big Toe is actually shorter than the second toe, And then the 3rd toe is lightly shorter than the big toe and it then forms a descending similar a 45 degrees.
4. Germanic Toe: Longer Big toe and then all other four toes are shorter but all four are the same length. Forming what seems to exist a strainer!
5. Celtic Toe:Downwards, Upwards, down, down, same. That just about sums up what looks like a jigsaw puzzle with the Celtic toe.

If you find that the child's mom has Celtic toes and you likewise have Celtic toes but Gerald the German beyond the route has Germanic toe and somehow your child has Germanic toes you know who has been seeing the neighbor a bit too ofttimes.

You Are Not the Father!

The signal of the matter is that your child must take some grade of attribute from y'all simply considering you gave him his DNA. That's right, no thing how genius or stupid, able-bodied or even if you lot are a sumo wrestler. In that location must be some traits that he has taken from you. Only despite all the obvious signs that i mentioned above, in that location are several other means that you can prove little beak isn't yours without doing an actual DNA test.

Identigene.
This is really a Dna exam kit sold at Walmart and other stores that you can buy and take home to give picayune bill his true father. However the identigene has a multi-trait paternity computer which looks at the ABO/RH claret blazon, eye color and fifty-fifty the type of ear lobe. What the blood type calculator does is to determine the right parent of the kid, whether it be mother or father. It does this by looking at the blood type of the child and and then looking at the claret blazon of female parent and alleged male parent. And then if the child's claret is B and the mothers is O, the father tin only have a claret type of B or AB for the kid to exist related to the father.

Formulation Figurer
Yes, in that location is actually something called a conception calculator. This is supposed to determine who piddling nib'due south dad is based upon sure plugged in criteria.

Conception Calculator estimates probable conception dates from Birth, LMP and Due dates.
These are probable conception dates based on an average 28 day cycle.

To utilize the calculator:
Cull either the Due Appointment / Birth Engagement
or the Commencement Day of Terminal Menstrual Menses,
Enter the date, and
Click the 'Calculate' push.

Results:
Start Mean solar day of Terminal Menstrual Flow: Nov 25, 2014
Likely Date of Ovulation: Dec 9, 2014
Possible Dates of Formulation: December 5 to Dec xiii, 2014

Due Engagement: September i, 2015 (40 weeks)

So with all this result here, the lady will now go back and figure who she did the hanky panky with during the possible conception dates. The affair is, if she was on a roll, like a counting roll, say 1, two, 3, 4, 5. That is quite a pickle there equally whatever i of these numbers could be the kid's dad.

Well, after watching such a dramatic video, you at present see how of import it is to ascertain if your child is really yours. The to a higher place methods are ways you can doubtfulness that your kid is yours. But if yous really want to be sure. Nil beats a good DNA test. So to all the fathers out at that place who were given other men children every bit their own and are still living up to fatherhood, kudos to you lot and your blessings will multiply. To all those ladies out in that location who go around bed hopping and having unprotected sexual activity and and so raffling your child, finish that practice delight. Have some dignity so that when you lot are significant, there is just no second guessing.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author's knowledge and is non meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2015 Clive Williams

Stephanie Purser from Australia on May 30, 2020:

Definitely interesting insight Clive. Unfortunate that so many men suffer this anxiety. I do call up you're forgetting high school biology. Recall Punnet Squares? Recessive genes and phenotypes? Information technology'due south hands explains why children might have unlike characteristics from parents.

In any example my advice to any man is to get a real deal paternity test. If you disown a kid because they're ear lobes are dissimilar to yours. You're a real tool.

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on March 26, 2020:

Darn it Paula...I idea you were already my Mom.

Ken Burgess from Florida on March 26, 2020:

Paula! I am shocked...

Suzie from Carson City on March 26, 2020:

Clive, love.....Your mother called. She got the results of her tests. Y'all're not her baby................It's OK, I'll adopt you,

Clive Williams (writer) from Jamaica on March 25, 2020:

To each his own

Anita Hasch from Port Elizabeth on March 25, 2020:

Proficient for you lot Syed.

I recall this commodity is in bad sense of taste. Children don't e'er look like the parents. They might have after the grandparents. I know of one child that looks identical to the begetter's sister.

syed imran ullah from Karachi Pakistan on March 19, 2020:

child is not a property of parents as god give the child to the parents on agreed time period and get dorsum whenever god wants , god bless a family unit with the kid to interruption the loneliness of the pair , people adapt the pet and enjoy with it but never tested it Dna or think about it belong to any one then why you write this article , only it is good commodity and informative flow of writing is very god and perhaps information technology open the thought forum for God lovers

BRENDA ARLEDGE from Washington Courtroom Business firm on January 10, 2020:

Clive,

I practise so wonder why you decided to write such an commodity, but it is very informative and might help someone in demand.

Just later on all these tests i would probably still practise the deoxyribonucleic acid exam if needed.

But certainly if i starts questioning I would think the mother would tell the truth. Perchance not?

Blood blazon is a slap-up way.

Great article.

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on January x, 2020:

exercise a dna....malawi has dna

ISHMAEL on January 10, 2020:

I hv a son,he is 3 weeks onetime now but he doesn't look similar to me or fifty-fifty his mother,he looks something unlike from me.what should i do in guild to have a true colour??? Only i exercise stay in malawi then here their is no DNA TEST.

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on December 28, 2019:

Harby...go the Deoxyribonucleic acid kit

Harbey18 on December 17, 2019:

How-do-you-do. I have a baby male child doesn't wait like me, not taking whatsoever parts from me. Always doubt him. Whats your advice pls

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on May 26, 2019:

Gina...DNA

gina on May 25, 2019:

Hullo clive, i take a situation here,i meet my married man three years back and he introduced me to her sweet loving"daughter" which i questioned from day one if information technology'south his

Anita Hasch from Port Elizabeth on May 13, 2019:

And then who'southward the begetter when yous notice that a friend s daughter looks a lot similar your own child at a certain age. Don't always blame the adult female.

Suzie from Carson Metropolis on May xiii, 2019:

Clive, Clive, Clive......Yes? Something you want to say?? LOL!

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on May xiii, 2019:

Paula.....paula paula...

Suzie from Carson Urban center on May 13, 2019:

Clive honey....Sometimes I see your titles and I'thou almost afraid to read the article!! LOL You lot surely come with some "unusual. oddly fascinating topics." You must keep your friends on their toes at all fourth dimension.

I will probably be very unpopular for my annotate but that, of course, never stopped me before. I am who I am and believe what I believe...if WOMEN WOULD Merely CEASE Existence THE TOWN WHORE, these dilemmas would not exist. I know I've just given abroad my age and "old fashioned" (and so to speak) ethics, simply I'one thousand quite invested in my attitude and morals, so no 1 will get an amends from me. Always. I do not intend to e'er alter my firm outlook.

Ladies (loosely using that term)....take information technology piece of cake on your bodies, your soul and your reputation. Men are not nearly to become extinct any fourth dimension shortly. Residual assured, if you lot insist upon having sex with multiple partners within a calendar month or a week......at the very least, exist responsible in using a practiced solid nascence control method. Beingness that y'all manifestly don't know how to run your own life in a proper, wholesome manner, you surely are not equipped to raise a child!!

And also.....GUYS, you have a responsibleness also.....possibly having an accidental child with some random tramp is non a expert idea at all. Condoms work ninety% of the fourth dimension., USE them. and all of you lot morally corrupt monkeys should probably see a Dr!!

Patricia Scott from North Fundamental Florida on May 13, 2019:

O my----very interesting. Fortunately this was never a concern for me or my (ex) spouse (non due to paternity issues either). It would be helpful for those of today to take this knowledge. thank you for sharing Angels are on the mode to you this morning ps

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on May 10, 2019:

@Monique Love....guy 2

Monique love on May 10, 2019:

I know this sounds bad. Simply I had sex with Guy 1 from 23 of Jan 2018 till like the beginning of February I did I get my menstruation 2 days outta those days we did non take sex on those days. Now Guy number 2 I had sexual activity with once on February 14 and my daughter was due anywhere from. Oct 31 to Nov iii 2018. Which practice y'all remember was the father I volition be doing a Deoxyribonucleic acid examination just I desire to know which one to test first

Teotee on October 28, 2018:

I had sex with my EX which is GUY " A " In the month of February. February 16/17 something similar that but I had my normal cycle Feb 21-26 or February 22-27 unremarkably every 28 days every calendar month and last for 5 days sometimes six the cease of the bleeding. Now, GUY " B " we had sex March 12 @1am so what that's like March 13 or no? All the same; After me and GUY "B" had sex I was waiting for my period to come March 21 but it never came which I kinda expected because he knew what he'd did ??????? Now I'1000 pregnant. The doctor says the due date is Dec 3. But I'm not certain which guy could be the father due to the fact I'm new to this pregnancy thing. Tin can someone assistance.

Clive Williams (writer) from Jamaica on October 14, 2018:

Xoxob. It is more likely that yous are meaning for guy number one. Yous can easily get a DNA kit though and when the child is born. Just test the 2 guys. Anyway, one partner makes wondering who the father is obsolete.

Xoxob on October xiv, 2018:

Assist please?? I had a flow March 10 to the fourteen, during that time I had sex with guy number 1 after that I had sex activity early on the 16 with guy number 2 in one case. Then one or 2 days later sex activity everyday with guy number 1.. im Due Dec fifteen. Is at that place a style to tell who the begetter is...??

Anita Hasch from Port Elizabeth on October 06, 2018:

Very interesting hub. All the same you seem to forget that kids sometime take after the grandparents. I know ane family that both daughters look identical to the husbands sister. Photos prove this. All I can say is should it ever be discovered that I took the wrong baby home from the hospital, I would not desire to change any child that I have brought upwardly for any other child, biological or not. Surely you honey the child that you helped heighten as a male parent from 24-hour interval i. If not, you take non got much dearest to give and the child would exist ameliorate off without you.

Clive Williams (writer) from Jamaica on October 04, 2018:

Edward...y'all neeed a DNA Test.

Edward Jones on October 04, 2018:

I had sex with my girlfriend for the first fourth dimension on May 26, 2018, she had an ultrasound June 29th 2018 the ultrasound revealed she was 7 weeks and 2 days. When was the baby conceived?

Lwandile Tengile on August 23, 2018:

On my ain i take that trouble of afraid to say that "that dought its my " because of her mothers disharmonize

Bongs Mabonga on August 22, 2018:

I stated dating some girl on 2008 January , after iii to four weeks we started she told me that she is pregnant and i'm the father. I said it's fine and then on November xix she gave a nascency to a cute girl .

Therefore on 2010 she got preg again and gave a nascence to a handsome boy and still she said i'thousand the begetter .

Unfortunately after four calendar month he was built-in he passed away. Then we broke up later ayear the buried .

Now this twelvemonth she is telling me that the first born baby is non mine the one that she is still alive , the thing is i don't believe her but at the same time i wanna know if she lying or not. Please assist, i don't know how am i going to notice the truth out.

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on May thirty, 2018:

Ballad Grace. First Guy

carol grace on May thirty, 2018:

am nine months pregnant but I don't know how is the father of my child. only on september xviii/2017 that was the final day of my periods I had sexual activity with the 1st guy on september thirty to october 1st and he came in the second guy nosotros had sex on October 5th simply he withdrew but I don't know if I had powered a little. but my due date is June 25/2018 pliz aid

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on May 22, 2018:

so your daddy probably;y Israelite

Clive Williams (writer) from Jamaica on March 17, 2018:

@Josepgh Robles. Is the mothers eyes bluish?

Joseph Robles on March 17, 2018:

I have dark-brown eyes my daughter has blue optics she is nigh two and has none of my features what should I do

Anita Hasch from Port Elizabeth on December 24, 2017:

Poor kid.

Catherine Giordano from Orlando Florida on December 03, 2017:

I don't know if toes can reveal who the male parent is without knowing about whether the factor (or genes) involved are dominant or recessive, just I institute that part very interesting. I have Greek toes. Oh Oh! My father was not Greek. (I take no thought what kind of toes he had.)

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on Oct thirteen, 2017:

Hey Rob, if y'all desire to take a DNA exam to prove the kid is yours she cannot say no. Get a court order for it to exist done. Also many men fathering children non there own while the real daddies out here drinking rum and sitting on white sand beaches.

Rob on October 12, 2017:

Okay and so I have so many questions my girl is pregnant and I want to get a Deoxyribonucleic acid test how. Merely she flips out when I want to become information technology done is she hiding something she says information technology's mine and she cries and says information technology'south mine and she don't similar talking about information technology. And so what should I practise or say please let me know thanks

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on September 26, 2017:

OK D. Get a Deoxyribonucleic acid kit

D on September 25, 2017:

My beginning kid from Mother #one is definitely mine. He has my whole the hell are you looking at face and her optics then the face when he cries....he looks similar his mother. He is stubborn like the both of us and talkative similar me.

My second child is unborn only I know the female parent #ii cheated on me while nosotros dated, during nosotros dated, when we moved in together and at present definitely after. How I know- she pushes me away, kicks me out everyday, I never once Expressionless able to hold her, buss her belly or talk to the baby in the womb which points out information technology isn't mine. We didn't take sex until our 3rd date and she was 2 weeks late in her menstruation. Everyone knows when a woman is late in her period she significant, and it wasn't me.

FlourishAnyway from Us on August 16, 2017:

You're the Maury Povich of HubPages.

Maisie122 on July 15, 2017:

My son has dark-brown eyes nighttime hair his partner brownish eyes blackness hair they have a 2 year sometime blonde hair blue eyes ,they as well accept a iv month old black pilus brown optics confused ,

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on May 17, 2017:

@onesssss....become a dna kit

Onossssss on May 17, 2017:

From the very day I had my daughter I know she is not my child

I am blackness, mom black

Child very bright and not bringing whatever of my trait

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on April 23, 2017:

Hello Aysha Khan,

The dates y'all provided does not say much. Did yous employ a condom on any i of those dates you gave?

If an egg is present and prepare to exist fertilized, the woman volition get meaning. In general, the fastest sperm tin can swim to the woman's eggs within 30 minutes. Slower sperm take upwardly to several days to accomplish the eggs. On average, sperm will only live in the female reproductive organs for most 48 hours to 72 hours.

Then you take been with hubby several times and your ten once in that shut proximity to your menrtusal. It is more likely that if y'all are significant the baby perchance your hubby's. My advice is to always be sure by sticking to 1 partner or utilise protection!

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on January 07, 2017:

Happy new years and success to yous PStraubie

Patricia Scott from North Central Florida on January 07, 2017:

All I tin can say is "O, my"......

well washed, Clive every bit always.

Wishing you much joy and goodness in this new year's day Angels are on the way this morning ps

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on December 02, 2016:

@Juliet...Maybe yous do. LOL

Juliet Stewart-Austin from San Antonio, TX. on December 02, 2016:

LOL...I need a Dna examination, my Girl questions her maternity.. "You lot are not the Female parent" very funny, well done!

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on September 11, 2016:

@candy, quite unproblematic. You are the potential grandma so as presently as the child is built-in and yous spend fourth dimension withe the kid, just go a home dna exam washed using IDENTIGENE Dna Paternity Test Collection Kit.

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on Feb 18, 2016:

beats me everytime dana.

Dana Tate from LOS ANGELES on February 18, 2016:

I love Maury, and I scissure up when these women go busted out when he comes with the "Y'all are not the father" These women all say they are a thousand percent sure when they know they slept with someone else. I don't know why the embarrass their self on T.5. when they know DNA don't lie.

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on February 11, 2016:

lol@calculuc-geometry....mmmm

Gary Pehle on January 29, 2016:

I am 55 years old and supposedly I have a child that is 34 years old.From the very mean solar day the whore that I was married to told me she was pregnant I have been asking who is the father?To this day I notwithstanding do not believe that I am the father to this kid.Without knowing whether or I am his begetter or not I take never emotionally bonded with him.At present ii grandkids are involved.They all think that they are some how entitled to function of my assets.

I am financially secure and could brand them as well but at the same time I would make them earn their ain wealth.They believe I should pay for these grandkids colleges when it comes time and how I should include them all into my will.Merely at the same time these red necks refuse to exercise whatsoever DNA testing.That I am some kind of ass because I exercise not believe the whore that is this childs mother.

Here she is a known whore that was with at least six different men tht I know of during the time that we where married.I of the men was my boss during the fourth dimension that I was in the military.I would be sent out to the field on manuvuers and the whore that was my married woman would motion the back stabbing low life little prick into my house and into my bed.

The acrimony and hatred I have for this whole family because of the actions of ane fucking whore is well deserved.Considering of her actions he does not have a father.The kids do not accept a grand father just know 1 blames this skanky donkey alley whore.This some how is all my fault.I paid kid support for 16 years on a bastard that I never and even so exercise not believe is my child.

So Lena you fucking skank ass alley whore I promise y'all die the slowest most painfullest death that a human being every bit gone through and in the process y'all should come make clean on who the begetter really is and and then give a Dna test to back it up. Because allow's face information technology there is a good chance that y'all don't even actually know who is the real father.

Every bit a last note if I found out tomorrow that I am actually the father and gramps of this family I however would not exist able to spring with whatever of them or woul I want to be a part of their lives .All of that has been tainted to the point of no render.But, I would see to it that they could get their educational activity if they kept their grades up.And I would see to it that that their financial needs would be taken care of after my passing.The mode everthing is now my stepfamily will exist very well taken care of.So Jesse and Lena my footstep kids say thank you for being the stupid dumbass red necks that you all are.

Clive Williams (writer) from Jamaica on April 23, 2015:

lol@frank....talk to maury!!

Frank Atanacio from Shelton on April 23, 2015:

Clive this was informative just more often than not fun... I am not the FATHER! AHHHH...LOL great job my friend

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on April twenty, 2015:

LOL@e'er exploring.....i am hush hush...lips sealed...will non say a give-and-take

Ruby Jean Richert from Southern Illinois on April 20, 2015:

Hee Hee, you are and then funny. You lot've done a lot of research. Why do I get the feeling you take been through this?

Clive Williams (author) from Jamaica on April 20, 2015:

yep, many times if fleck is likewise far from the block it usually means that the scrap belongs to some other block....

Keisha Hunter from Kingston, Jamaica on Apr twenty, 2015:

Lol Clive you actually should acquit yourself! Surely yous don't believe half of this!

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